For two years, Laura Parker struggled to get a correct diagnosis for what was happening to her body before finally learning she had Paget disease of the breast and ductal carcinoma in situ (DCIS). This is her story in her own words.
The Start of My Journey
At the age of 34, I learned I had Paget disease of the breast and DCIS. But that wasn’t the start of my journey — it began two years earlier with confusion, misdiagnosis and a determination to understand what was happening to my body.
For two years, I lived with symptoms that didn’t add up. I was experiencing itching, redness and discomfort in my breast, all of which seemed unrelated to breast cancer. The answers from doctors didn’t align with what I was experiencing, but I knew something was wrong.
I was told it might be eczema, dermatitis or even an infection, but nothing seemed to resolve the issue. I was frustrated and scared, sensing something more serious was happening, but feeling unheard.
Advocating for My Health
After pushing for more tests and advocating for my health, I was finally given the diagnoses of Paget disease and DCIS. The news was overwhelming, but I felt a strange sense of relief that my condition had finally been identified. Paget’s disease, a rare form of breast cancer, affects the skin of the nipple and/or areola (skin surrounding the nipple). It is usually found with an underlying breast cancer, such as DCIS, which is a non-invasive breast cancer confined to the milk ducts. My diagnoses meant surgery and treatment were necessary to prevent the spread of the disease.
Aggressive Treatment
The treatment plan was aggressive but necessary. I underwent a single mastectomy to ensure that the cancer did not spread and axillary lymph node removal. Every step of the way, I faced fear and uncertainty, but I knew I had to fight —for myself, my family and my future. As a wife and mother of two boys, the thought of not being there for my family motivated me to keep going, even on the toughest days.
Mental, Emotional and Spiritual Well-Being
Breast cancer doesn’t just affect your body; it impacts your mental, emotional and spiritual well-being. Through my faith and the unwavering support of my loved ones, I found strength I didn’t know I had. My husband was my rock, constantly reminding me that I was not fighting this battle alone.
Push for Answers, Share Your Story
Looking back, I realize how crucial it was that I advocated for my health. If I hadn’t pushed for answers, my diagnosis might have come too late. That’s why I’m sharing my story today, to raise awareness about the importance of early detection and self-advocacy. If something feels wrong, trust yourself. Keep pushing for answers, because your voice matters.
Breast Cancer Survivor
As a breast cancer survivor, I’ve joined a community of warriors who inspire me every day. The fight against breast cancer isn’t just about survival; it’s about thriving after the diagnosis and helping others along the way. I’m grateful to Komen for their tireless work in breast cancer research, education and support. Their mission has given women like me hope, and I’m proud to share my story in the hopes that it will inspire others to never give up.
Focus on Healing
Today, I’m focused on healing physically, emotionally and spiritually. Surviving breast cancer has changed my perspective on life. I’m more mindful, more grateful and more determined than ever to make the most of every moment. For anyone facing a diagnosis, know that you’re stronger than you think. With faith, love and perseverance, you can overcome the toughest battles.
This is my story, but it’s also a story of hope, courage and resilience for every woman facing breast cancer. Together, we are stronger, and together, we will continue to fight.
Statements and opinions expressed are that of the individual and do not express the views or opinions of Susan G. Komen. This information is being provided for educational purposes only and is not to be construed as medical advice. Persons with breast cancer should consult their health care provider with specific questions or concerns about their treatment.
